I bought the kid exactly 1 short sleeve polo school shirt. I should have known better then to let her get hot lunch when it was spaghetti day. The kid still eats with her fingers 100 % of the time. She is hopelessly messy in all things. I never buy white for my kids and 90% of their clothes are hand me downs so I don't really worry about stains normally. But I have to get this thing clean and white. So color safe bleach or oxy clean? Anyone???? I soaked it all night and it did nothing.